Shadowing Pádraig Ó Tuama: Common Ground is Not the Goal
While debriefing Narrative 4 circles I facilitate in and beyond Nashville, I often hear people say things like, “This experience reminds me of how much we all have in common. Most of the time, we’re all focused on all our differences, but we just need to remember that we are all more alike than we are different.”
This is a lovely sentiment, and one that may even be true. But it also might not be. While prioritizing the search for common ground has great use, it also runs the risk of assuming we must do this because difference is bad.
Understanding Conflict, part 1: The Biological Dimension
Peacebuilding is a multi-faceted endeavor. Numerous activities, players, and approaches make up its practice.[1] Among the many threads composing the fabric of peacebuilding is that of mediation. Colin Craig’s Dialogue for Peaceful Change (DPC) engages this thread of peacebuilding, practicing mediation in Northern Ireland and numerous other countries throughout the world. Having participated in DPC’s […]
On Conflict Resolution: Toward the Transformation of Conflict
Belfast, N. Ireland To conclude this small series on understanding conflict resolution, I want to move away from just the presentation of different perspectives in the field and offer my personal take on the issues discussed in post three: i.e., the debate between conflict resolution and conflict transformation. WHAT’S THE TELOS? When deciding which terminology […]
On Conflict Resolution: Pluralism or Cosmopolitanism?
Belfast, N. Ireland (This very brief post is not for assessment. I just found the conversation between pluralism and cosmopolitanism to be interesting, and thought I would share.) I find it helpful when introducing myself to the field of conflict resolution to have a basic knowledge of the conversation between the “pluralist” and “cosmopolitan” hopes […]
On Conflict Resolution: Some Critiques
Belfast, N. Ireland We would be remiss if we did not consider at least a couple of the many non-transformation critiques of CR. What follows here will primarily be taken from a very helpful chapter in Contemporary Conflict Resolution.[1] The chapter outlines four major critiques: the realist, critical theory, post-structural, and non-Western/non-Northern. Here I will […]
On Conflict Resolution: Between Resolution and Transformation
Belfast, N. Ireland Important in understanding conflict resolution is addressing the ongoing debate in the field between the terms resolution and transformation. Advocates of transformation language might suggest that the word resolution contains shortsighted tendencies toward quick-fixes. In my estimation, since the introduction of the term conflict transformation in the 1980s by John Paul Lederach, […]
On Conflict Resolution: Grasping Some Terms
Having rudimentarily addressed the nature of contemporary conflict, we shall now glance at some conflict resolution (CR) vernacular. Most of us are likely familiar with many of CR’s common terms, such as negotiation, mediation, problem-solving, etc. Though we do not always have well-articulated definitions of these terms, we essentially “know them when we see them.” […]
![Yesterday, on my 30th birthday, my mom showed me this note she’s kept since I was in 4th grade. I had been playing on the elementary football team all summer but finally had enough. Here’s what I wrote it my parents to let them know. Amazing how you can change so much over the years, and also not change at all. [letter reads: Dear Mom and Dad,
I have made a choice. My reasons: I don’t want to hurt anyone. I don’t want to get hurt, I’ve already had 7 minor injurys. I don’t want to risk it, though I like to run I don’t like to run over, and I don’t like the coach yelling. So I have made my final choice. I QUIT.
P.S. Don’t talk to me about it unless you have to.]](https://scontent.cdninstagram.com/vp/759040878af1fcfe2aa73f23a60bc7ce/5D3FC3D5/t51.2885-15/sh0.08/e35/p640x640/56510995_2285070131811385_7311739717188716096_n.jpg?_nc_ht=scontent.cdninstagram.com "Yesterday, on my 30th birthday, my mom showed me this note she’s kept since I was in 4th grade. I had been playing on the elementary football team all summer but finally had enough. Here’s what I wrote it my parents to let them know. Amazing how you can change so much over the years, and also not change at all. [letter reads: Dear Mom and Dad,
I have made a choice. My reasons: I don’t want to hurt anyone. I don’t want to get hurt, I’ve already had 7 minor injurys. I don’t want to risk it, though I like to run I don’t like to run over, and I don’t like the coach yelling. So I have made my final choice. I QUIT.
P.S. Don’t talk to me about it unless you have to.]")
